Perception vs. Reality

Today I read the following quote from Oprah Winfrey “People don’t change behavior or positions based on what they know. They change based on what they feel.” That quote I think is a corollary to one thing that I have believed for a long time – That is – “Perception is reality to the perceiver”.  Think about it, if someone believes something to be the case they often persist in that belief even in the face of evidence to the contrary.  Why is this the case?  I do not know for sure, but I think it has to do with preconceived notions, value systems, myth or things that have been touted as fact for a long time.

So what does this mean for us?  It means we have to be aware of our audience’s perception of us and be prepared to make the appropriate adjustments to square the perception with our reality.  The social media tools can and should be a major component in this quest.  First, we should be tracking any mention of us on the social media networks.  Google Alerts and other tools will provide you daily with a list of items that appear with you or your organizations name.  Strategically placed questions in the various social media forums, Twitter and Facebook come to mind, can enlist responses that provide a picture of how we are viewed.  Armed with the information that we glean from all sources we can, again using the social media tools, work to change the perception our audience holds of us.  It can also mean that our current offerings are not meeting the needs of our audience.  This too is valuable information and can provide us with what we need to make the changes necessary to meet the expressed wants and needs.

Not adapting to what we find is analogous to pushing a chain up the hill – it does not work!  Start today to build your intelligence system and begin assembling all of the information you can acquire and be ready to adapt.

Driving Distractions

Today after spending the entire day in Traffic Survival School and listening to all of the evils of cell phone usage while driving I got to thinking about driving distractions in general and came to the conclusion that cell phone usage may be getting a bad rap.  In particular when talking about hands-free usage.  I have always wondered why talking hands free on a cell phone while driving is any more distracting or dangerous than talking to the passenger in the front seat.  Additionally, I suspect that hands free cell phone usage is probably less distracting than talking to passengers in the back seat as many times drivers tilt their head to the right taking their focus from the road.

As a result of that I assembled a list of other distractions that in my opinion are more dangerous than cell phone usage generally and particularly when compared to hands-free usage.  Number one on my list is women applying makeup or doing their hair while driving.  Think about that – what is necessary to apply makeup or do hair – generally it requires looking in a mirror and often times requires both hands!  The classic example of this occurred a few years ago in the Dallas Texas area.  On a major thruway in morning rush hour I witnessed a woman in bumper-to-bumper traffic at 55 mph with her hair spray in one hand, a hairbrush in the other and the visor down so that she could look in the mirror!  Had there been a collision it would have been called an accident, but in my mind it would have been an “On Purpose”.  As we move down the list, people dealing with children in the back seat comes to mind.  It is not uncommon to see someone turned about 90 degrees away from the road and looking in the back seat dealing with children.  On my way home this evening, I followed a woman that steadfastly refused to use her turn signals.  After a bit I pulled abreast of her car and found the reason.  She had her small dog in her left arm and I am sure that made things like working the turn signal lever difficult.  Further,  having Fido in her arm, and wiggling around as animals do, surely distracted her attention from driving.   Not only was she potentially distracted but with Fido in her left arm she is most certainly ill prepared to respond to any unexpected occurrence. I am sure that most of us have witnessed people reading while driving, often times in rush hour traffic.  There is no doubt in my mind that reading a newspaper or book while driving is far more distracting than talking on a cell phone as by definition to read your eyes have to be diverted from the road.  At least while talking on a cell phone one can keep their eyes on the road. This list is my no means all encompassing and I suspect that most could add activities to the list, but I think you get the gist of what I am talking about.

No one talks about law enforcement officers usage of communication gear while driving.  In addition to the equipment installed in their squad car, I often see them talking on a cell phone and not the hands-free variety.  Now I find it difficult to believe that the average law enforcement officer is more qualified to multitask while driving that most of us average citizens.  I would even suggest that given the sometimes highly charged and oftentimes emergency nature of their communications that law enforcement officers would be more distracted than us average citizens.  Wonder why there is no chatter about this one!

I, like most, have witnessed people who are obviously distracted talking on a cell phone while driving but as noted earlier distracted driving is not unique to cell phone usage and probably not the most distracting.   Further, as noted earlier, using a voice activated hands-free cell phone dramatically reduces any risk.  One would properly argue that doing anything else while driving holds the prospect of distracting the driver from Task One but having said that it would be difficult to eliminate things like talking with a passenger in the front seat or other normal activities.  So before we “Throw the baby out with the bathwater”  let’s slow down and consider all of the facts.

Hard to Believe That These Quotes Are Not From Today

“It has been said the greatest volume of sheer brainpower in one place occurred when Jefferson dined alone...” John Kennedy

HOW DID JEFFERSON KNOW??????
When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as corrupt as Europe.
Thomas Jefferson

The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not.
Thomas Jefferson

It is incumbent on every generation to pay its own debts as it goes.
A principle which if acted on would save one-half the wars of the world.
Thomas Jefferson

I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them.
Thomas Jefferson

My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government.
Thomas Jefferson

No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms.
Thomas Jefferson

The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government.
Thomas Jefferson

The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.
Thomas Jefferson

To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson

Thomas Jefferson said in 1802:
‘I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies. If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their currency, first by inflation, then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around the banks will deprive the people of all property until their children wake-up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered..’

Mark Twain Said It All

“No man’s life, liberty or property is safe while Congress is in session.”  This famous quote from Mark Twain describes our current situation more so than any in recent memory.  The Reid/Pelosi cabal is attempting to fabricate the most egregious grab of personal liberty at least since the New Deal.  Without a doubt they have failed to acknowledge that most of the power is reserved to the individual states and is not their personal playground.  Healthcare needs to be fixed but not blown up.  When over 80% of Americans are satisfied with their current healthcare it seems to me that a more stepped approach is required. Why can we not eliminate the fraud and abuse in Medicare without ripping apart the entire system.

Further, President Obama promised “If you like your current insurance you can keep it”.  Right after that he said that we need to eliminate the Medicare Advantage programs, coverage currently subscribed to by some 10,000,000 seniors!  What are we Chopped Liver??  Additionally the plan envisions cutting a half a trillion dollars from Medicare and they have the audacity to say that this will not cut the quality or availability of care.

All we can do is hope that one of two things happen; either the Republican wins in Mass or the weight of public opinion gets to heavy and they have to back off.