My wife has these days when she wants “us to talk about things”. We were discussing aspects of our future so when it was my turn I asked her “What will you do if I die before you do?”
After some thought, she said that she’d probably look for a house-sharing situation with three other single or widowed women who might be a little younger than herself, since she is so active for her age.
Then she asked me, “What will you do if I die first?”
I replied, “Probably the same thing.”